What if…
I promised myself to be honest in my blogs. There are things most people don’t talk about. The “what ifs”.
What if something goes wrong? It’s the 21st century. Hospitals are top notch. Our doctor group rocks. We take care of each other. But, What if?
I know they scare Sarah. My response is usually, “We will do what we have to, and love the baby and each other…”
It scares me too. My son was a perfect birth. That made the thought of having a second child even more frightening. How many times do you get to be blessed.
You see it all over. Birth defects, problems with the birth, conditions after birth. I worry about Sarah as well. What if…
I don’t have the answer. I can only promise to be there for Sarah and the baby. It sucks but it’s the only answer I have.
We are watching “to catch a predator”. A friend said her son was approached in a chat room. Another “what if”. So don’t just worry about the birth and health, but about people who want to bring pain and destroy a beautiful child. What if…
May 14th, 2008 at 8:51 pm
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