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I’m a huge believer in kissing. I think every woman deserves to be reminded that she is a woman from time to time with a heartfelt kiss. Now one of those “see ya later, gotta go” kisses, or even the “get ready, sex is emanate” kisses, but a real “this is because you are the most amazing woman I know” kiss.

In this crazy world, we sometimes forget to show the woman we love exactly how much she means. We forget that a kiss, one that gives butterflies, is one of the best ways to show it. I know men who think kissing is something you do as a salutation, but a real kiss can happen at any time. The best are the ones that are spontaneous and unexpected. Getting into a car to go to the super market. At the supermarket. Sitting around watching football…or “so you think you can dance”. Laying in bed, talking. No occasion. No grand exit. And no expectations. The best kisses are those without strings attached. Now, I’m not saying that it may not lead to other things, but the best ones don’t start with a “plan”.

I can’t tell you how to kiss…everyone is different and wants to be kissed in special ways. I’m not a “I’m going to eat your face” kisser. Sometimes I do have that “devour her” urge, but that’s different. I can’t stand the “eyes wide open” kiss either…it’s like kissing a fish. My wife and I think the other is the world’s best kisser…which works out well. So, whatever way your lover likes to be kissed, discover it. Use it. Experiment. But don’t forget the power it can wield. I guarantee, if you do it right, you’ll feel the butterflies too. It will also do the kids good to see that you guys still get mushy, but don’t get too crazy in front of the kiddies.


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