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Father of the Year…Again

by Bryan Comer

We had Jack this weekend. It started out great. Everybody was healty-ish. We made pizza. He won his 2nd baseball game. We played Putt-Putt. There was a lot of Wii. It was a pretty good weekend. Until Sunday.

Jack has a tendency to have sudden illness when he doesn’t want to do something or when he’s sucking at an activity. If he has a bad day at baseball, it’s because his stomach hurts. It’s never because he isn’t paying attention. It’s never because he’s just being 7. It’s a headache…or a pain in his leg…or a tumor.

So when he was having a stomach attack while not being able to throw a Frisbee, I figured it was just his way of saying he wanted to play Wii more than Frisbee. So, Sarah and I said, we’ll go back home, but no Wii.

He seemed fine when we got home, we joked around, until it was time to go look at a house we were thinking about buying. Suddenly his stomach ache came back. Again, because we were making him do something he didn’t want to do.

Let’s skip ahead to today…for dramatic effect. The ER doctor decided he didn’t need an IV if he could keep his sprite down and pass urine at the hospital. That’s right. We were maybe 3 miles from the house when up came is breakfast. It was like that through the night at his mom’s house. His doctor was afraid he might be dehydrated today, so she had the bio-mom take him to the ER. He didn’t get an IV and seems to be doing much better.

My instincts are awesome at times.


5 Responses to “Father of the Year…Again”

  1. Baseball » Father of the Year…Again Says:

    [...] Sympathy Pain wrote an interesting post today on Father of the Year…AgainHere’s a quick excerptIf he has a bad day at baseball, it’s because his stomach hurts….We had Jack this weekend. It started out great. Everybody was healty-ish. We made pizza. He won his 2nd baseball game. We played Putt-Putt. There was a lot of Wii. It was a pretty good weekend. Until Sunday…. [...]

  2. The Anvil Tree » Making Lemonade and Other Cliches Says:

    [...] and foremost, The Boy is fine.  You can read about it at Bryan’s site, and you’ll have to, because I have been forbidden to speak about it.  Those of you who know [...]

  3. Stephanie Says:

    You’re totally normal… I let Elyse puke (with same bug PLUS kidney infection) for 2 days before taking her to the doc. If we jumped every time they puked, well, we’d be really poor!

  4. Sarah Says:

    Yes, BRYAN is totally normal. He is the normal parent there. BUT I’M NOT SAYING ANYTHING..

  5. Sympathy Pain » Blog Archive » What a week Says:

    [...] which was a trip to the middle of the state…about 2 hours one way. Next to the emergency room with Jack and his faking dehydration (I kid…he was pretty sick). I think it was sometime Monday [...]

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