Advice from a preschool teacher
I thought this was absolutely awesome. I wanted to share.
Preschool Teacher
Okay, tell us the thing you’d never say to our face.
If a parent doesn’t follow my directions, I’ll assume her child won’t either. I give parents specific instructions — fill out these forms by this date, e-mail instead of calling, don’t put candy in your kid’s lunch. As soon you break my rules, that creates an immediate bias against your child. And most teachers feel the same way.
Ouch. What else?
The six most lethal words to a teacher at the end of class: “Hi! Do you have a minute?” We hate that. Make an appointment. Likewise, don’t pretend you’re in my classroom to volunteer and then try to use that time to chat about your child’s progress.
What’s the biggest secret among teachers?
Just as you have a preferred teacher you want for your kid next year, we have preferred students we want for our classrooms. How to become a preferred family? Start each school year by sending your teacher this e-mail: “Please provide me with a wish list of 10 things you would like for your classroom.” She’ll ask for things like Post-it notes, a chess set, a 50-cent deck of cards. When you spend maybe $20 on these items, it goes through the grapevine that you are here not just for your kid but for the entire class — that this is the family that cares about the community, whose child is probably a team player too.
I wonder if this would have helped last year.
September 24th, 2008 at 9:04 pm
Interesting. It appears teachers are human too. I have a friend who is a teacher. She found it annoying to teach kids who appeared to have never been disciplined.
September 25th, 2008 at 3:01 am
This is so good to get in the other person’s shoes. Misunderstanding is the mother of conflict.